When considering the best way to bring out a submissive side in a femdom game, the phrase “safe, sane and consensual comes to mind. Allowing a submissive to explore their own capabilities within their comfort zone will give them the necessary confidence to let go and be more open minded and trusting.
Being respectful and taking the time to understand all parties involved is key. Exploring or participating in a Femdom game should always be a safe and trustful experience.
Finding out what each party’s expectations are before the game begins is a crucial step. Set the tone of the game and the boundaries right away. Even though the dominant may be lenient, or/and experienced, it never hurts to discuss expectations and rules.
A good way to move further into a Femdom game is to start with small and mutually agreed activities in order to build up comfort and trust. The slightest gestures such as light spanking or biting, or the use of other items such as a blindfold or a feather, are all encouraged.
Once the comfort level is established and the bond between the dominant and sub is strong, it’s time to explore further. Involve other activities such as tasks, role-play or humiliation.
In any case, communication is essential and should remain present throughout the entire experience. The sessions should be adapted according to the submissive’s needs and desires, allowing them to be taken further or pulled back if needed.
Most importantly, everything should be brought to a close in a mutually respectful and acknowledging way. This will give a closure to the game and will ensure a lasting and pleasurable experience.
Overall, bringing out a submissive side in a Femdom game requires the trust that is brought about by mutual respect, communication and understanding. If both dominant and submissive show a loving and consensual attitude, a rewarding and fulfilling experience is in store. Published here.
What are some common misconceptions about Brutal BDSM?
When it comes to BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism), there are many common misconceptions that pervade the public imagination. Unfortunately, this lack of accurate information often leads to judgment and prejudice about something that should be accepted for what it is: a thrilling form of consensual creative expression for all genders and orientations. Here, we clarify some of the most common misconceptions about Brutal BDSM to help educate on this captivating lifestyle.
The first and most prevalent misconception about Brutal BDSM is that it is the same as sexual assault. This could not be further from the truth. At its core, Brutal BDSM is an exciting form of role-playing, where the thrill of pushing boundaries in a controlled, consensual environment is part of the appeal. In this situation, all participants must agree explicitly on the boundaries and safe words that will govern the activity. Sexual assault, on the other hand, is a form of violence wherein someone is forced or coerced into engaging in sexual activity without their consent – something that has absolutely no place in Brutal BDSM.
The second misinterpretation that often appears about Brutal BDSM is that it is a form of abuse. Again, this is categorically untrue. Brutal BDSM, like all forms of BDSM, is a consensual activity that is strictly conducted in a safe, controlled environment. Any activity that violates consent is not only unethical but also illegal. Abuse, however, is a form of assault, and is in no way a part of Brutal BDSM. In an abusive relationship, a vulnerable partner is controlled and manipulated – something that is opposed to the universal principles of Brutal BDSM.
The third and final misconception that is often seen about Brutal BDSM is that it is a violent and dangerous activity. In reality, Brutal BDSM is in fact quite the opposite. The principles of mutual trust, respect, and communication between both partners ensure that the activities remain safe and enjoyable. All participants must establish explicit boundaries and safe words that they can use when they require more or less stimulation, pain, or intensity – helping them to remain safe while enjoying an intense and thrilling activity.
At its core, Brutal BDSM is an understanding between all involved parties, based on principles of trust, respect, and communication. Not only is it not the same as sexual assault, abuse, or violence, but it is in fact a thrilling form of consensual and creative expression that should be accepted and appreciated for what it is. With a better understanding of Brutal BDSM, we can create a more open-minded and accepting environment for all genders and orientations to express their desires in a safe and healthy way.